Last Thursday I had an appt at the spa after work. I was in the elevator at the hotel with 3 people who were together. They were talking amongst themselves and said I wonder what floor the V Bar is on. I said oh yes it is on 3. They said oh thanks and looked at each other and said (out loud), "Oh she must work here."
I share this story not to complain but to inform others of how some of us deal with this part of our experience.
Here's an interesting take on this type of situation by Mellody Hobson